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r/relationship_advice

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Top posts this week

The 10 highest-scored posts from the last 7 days — ranking by real score over a week naturally filters out posts that got removed shortly after posting.

PostScorePosted
My (35F) boyfriend's (37M) flight data doesn't add up10926d ago
My BF (27M) is getting increasingly angry with me (22F) for getting pregnant. How do I even begin to navigate this?10886d ago
Update: My husband (35M) had an emotional affair with a bandmate. I (39F) feel detached now and I’m not sure what to do.8346d ago
I (37M) ended things with girlfriend (38F) over long term incompatibilities5887d ago
My (now ex :/) bf (M21) just broke up with me because I (F22) was playing a game4197d ago
My [M34, F27] girlfriend likes to send me Instagram reels to “teach me” things about relationships, and it’s driving me up a wall.3248d ago
My (34f) boyfriend (44m) says our sex life sucks despite having sex almost every day. I’m starting to feel pressured into intimacy?2687d ago
When do I (f24) call it quits on my bf (m23) of 7 years?2498d ago
I (25M) think I ruined my girlfriend’s (24F) birthday before it even happened. Am I cooked?2267d ago
I F18 took my boyfriend M18 virginity2197d ago

Posting rules

  • Posts must contain a title, description, TLDR, & basic info like ages, genders
  • All posts must request specific advice on a specific, real situation between two or more people
  • No questions that can be answered with yes or no (aka moral judgment)
  • Things This Sub Can't Give Advice On:
  • Only One Update Is Allowed
  • Surveys, Academic Research, Information Requests, and Media Questions Should Be Sent to Modmail
  • All comments must be on topic, and focus on the OP, and be made in good faith
  • Keep It Civil
  • No referencing hateful or abusive subs/individuals/content
  • Do not directly message users
  • No situations involving people under 18

Pull this with the API

1 credit per page — this exact request:

curl
curl "https://api.threadsnoop.com/v1/posts?subreddit=relationship_advice&limit=25" \
  -H "x-api-key: ts_live_YOUR_KEY"

See /docs/posts for pagination, filtering with q=, and full response shape, or /docs/subreddits for the rules endpoint used above.

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