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r/relationship_advice

15,376,478 subscribers — Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help!

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Top posts this week

The 10 highest-scored posts from the last 7 days — ranking by real score over a week naturally filters out posts that got removed shortly after posting.

PostScorePosted
My (25F) friend (25F) copies me so much that she even wants to have the same disease as I12677d ago
I (30F) am starting to lose faith in my husband (30M) as a father and husband.. advice?11168d ago
How to tell my girlfriend (28F) that I (31M) can’t handle her financial situation anymore?11056d ago
Boyfriend (33M) accidentally "slipped" during sex (24F)?10627d ago
​I [33M] broke up with my GF [30F] (5 months) because she wants to share a hotel room with a male friend. Am I "patriarchal"?8237d ago
I (25M) need to break up with my (24F) partner but her life has been ruined. How do I break up with her?7197d ago
"How do i (19F) repair my relationship after deeply hurting my partner (19M)?" UPDATE6236d ago
I (29f)’m starting to resent my husband (33m)3717d ago
I’ve [32F] been talking to a man [28M] online for 2 years and I’m now genuinely concerned about my safety3698d ago
My husband (22M) accused me (21F) of lying about taking our dog out3597d ago

Posting rules

  • Posts must contain a title, description, TLDR, & basic info like ages, genders
  • All posts must request specific advice on a specific, real situation between two or more people
  • No questions that can be answered with yes or no (aka moral judgment)
  • Things This Sub Can't Give Advice On:
  • Only One Update Is Allowed
  • Surveys, Academic Research, Information Requests, and Media Questions Should Be Sent to Modmail
  • All comments must be on topic, and focus on the OP, and be made in good faith
  • Keep It Civil
  • No referencing hateful or abusive subs/individuals/content
  • Do not directly message users
  • No situations involving people under 18

Pull this with the API

1 credit per page — this exact request:

curl
curl "https://api.threadsnoop.com/v1/posts?subreddit=relationship_advice&limit=25" \
  -H "x-api-key: ts_live_YOUR_KEY"

See /docs/posts for pagination, filtering with q=, and full response shape, or /docs/subreddits for the rules endpoint used above.

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